Some of you said my last post was kind of a tease, because they thought it was about the other kind of submission.Well, I can write a post about that, too, but here’s the twist.
I had to put myself on the line and ask for what I wanted.
Now, you might think, ‘Big deal,’ but it is a big deal, because I’m basically pretty shy and we never talked about sex when I was growing up, so it’s not something I'm all that comfortable discussing. I suffered through years of frustration, wishing the guy would just read my mind already and do what I wanted done, but you know what?Most guys aren’t psychic. You actually have to ask.
And it's hard. Sure it is. There's a chance he'll think you’re a total freak, but there's also a chance it’ll work out just fine.
So stop being a wuss and go for it.
If you don't ask, the answer is always no.